‘If You’re Tired, Use Your Mouth…If You’re Not In The Mood, Use Your Hand…If You’re In Your Menses, Wash Up And Give Him Your Behind – Stephanie Benson Recounts Mum’s Wedding Night Advice


Ghanaian musician Stephanie Benson has shared the unforgettable advice her mum gave her on wedding night.

And according to Stephanie, her mother advised her never to complain about fatigue during the act but adopt other strategies to satisfy her husband at all cost. 

She disclosed that her mum told her to use her mouth or consider other options depending on the situation

In a tweet, she wrote; “On my wedding night, young and inexperienced my mummy gave me one advice I’ll never forget. She said “Akua, when it comes to the act, if you are tired, use ur mouth, if you are not in the mood use ur hand. If you are “in ur period” wash and get ready to use ur behind“.

Suggesting that this advice has worked to keep her marriage, she asked “it worked…Anaa”. 

The Ghanaian singer has been married to her husband, for 32 years and the couple have 5 kids together.